Window 69 – Surrender and see where you land

When we resist our journey we are telling God that we know better.

We are not in charge of mapping out the destiny of the journey, we are just in charge of how we react to what we are destined for.  Our reaction determines the outcome of our future steps to which we will either continue on our destine path or   be re-routed until we surrender, to see that we are not in control.

~ WOW ~

Window 68 – Embracing the unknown

What we fight gains strength; which distracts us from shinning our light and places our focus on illuminating darkness.

Our fear of the unknown is what causes us to fight with what we know and for what we don’t want to lose out of fear for our dreaded “what if “of happening but…all of our fighting and freaking out will not change what will be; it just blocks our light from shining on the journey, before the outcome is revealed.

If we can consciously strive to remain in the present moment as we face the unknown, we will see that the unknown becomes the light with every darkened step, and we become the journey, instead of taking a journey.

~ WOW ~

Window 67 – True Beauty exists in the heart

One critical comment  to a person’s physical appearance can deplete one’s self esteem in an instant, and create a painful struggle of self-worth that can last a lifetime.

Every person that has seen a mirror is well aware of what they look like; and almost every person on the planet has some issue with their self-image that they may not love or they feel insecure about; so the last thing any person needs to hear is some negative critique, thought or opinion from another person.

Think before you speak, and think harder before you voice a negative comment about someone else’s appearance because not only is it hurtful and rude it can also be the breaking point for the person  hearing the negativity. For anyone on the receiving end of a negative comment just remember that the person voicing it is the person who is suffering  and although that does not make it right or acceptable, it is an awakening that can help you from taking it personal and taking ownership of the negativity.

Our physical shell is for identification purposes and does not in any way determine the beauty of one’s heart. The  heart of a person is what matters;  and society has it backwards… so we must each do our part to connect with our own heart and the hearts of others above everything and show, love, kindness, respect and help empower one another so no one will  feel “less than” anyone.

~ WOW ~

Window 66 – Feeling unhealed wounds










We will rotate the same emotional reactions with different people until we can see that it is not the person we are reacting to, it is the emotional pain that we carry from the initial wound.

 The replay of our anger, jealousy, hate and distrust are all emotions that resurface with different people because they stem from a wound in our past that was never healed. We place blame on people and situations for our feelings and outbursts of negative emotions but in truth, we can only place blame on our self, for our uncontrolled reactions that stem from our old unhealed wounds.

We cannot change what happened in the past but the past holds the key  to why we react negatively … In looking at what caused our initial emotional pain we can see that it is the” feeling” from our old pain that continues to surface and not the initial situation or person in a new form.

If you dissect that old feeling to find the cause, you can then use that feeling as your guide to know if the feeling is connected to the current situation or the past. It is through that awareness that an old wound can truly heal and a new wound from an old feeling can be prevented, because your view of the now is clear.

~ WOW ~

Window 65 – Love is our lifeline








Love is all that exists in the spirit world;  it is the only thing that we were able to bring with us when we came to do this physical journey and is the only thing we can take with us when we depart.

We come from love that is why we all yearn to have love on this physical journey because it is what reminds us of home. It is why the loss of a love connection by death or a break up is so painful and devastating because love is the life line of our souls.

The energy of all our negative emotions and actions lingers on this earthly plain and the only way to heal it is through love. If the spirit realm operates only on love maybe we come here to purify the negative energy left behind by our ancestors and our self, with the goal of creating a replica of the spirit world on earth.

Love is what unites us and makes us feel an inner joy that is unexplainable; so let go of hate and forgive those who hurt you and make your wrongs right so you are not leaving behind toxic energy for your loved ones to bear.  There is nothing else we can take with us so we must let go of trying to obtain “things” that are meaningless and focus on keeping our connection to our inner spirit over our ego so we are seeing all things through love and leaving love for our loved ones.

If our earthly journey is a test to remain in love through experiencing the ego, than we must make that our goal to pass the test… so we can go home with honors.

~ WOW~

Window 64 – Every soul is Equal








You are neither above or beneath another human being…it does not matter what you have or don’t have or what you did or didn’t do …we are all one and the same and if your ego is sabotaging your belief to think otherwise, the divine will either humble you or ignite your light to know that we are all equal.

Every person is here for a purpose and is no greater or less in value.  It is the ego that poisons our thoughts to believe we are better or less than others because of our material items, physical appearance, finances and social status.  When we get caught in the trap of the ego we diminish the light of our spirit and drain the spirit of others.

We are not on this physical journey to outdo one another… we are here to love, support, give and share our blessings and unique abilities to help empower one another so that our physical journey does not break our spirit and our connection to the divine.

~ WOW~

Window 63 – Answered Prayers








 Our prayers are answered but our vision of how we think the outcome of the prayer will be can block us from seeing that they got answered.

If we each look back on past prayers we can see that many of our prayers were indeed answered but we just thought the “feeling” or “outcome “of the answer would be different from the reality of the answer, so we view the prayer as unanswered. We forget that the universe is in control and that some of our prayers will come with lessons in order to awaken us to a higher level of self that could not awaken by just being answered.

Take a reality check of what you prayed for and you will see that most of your prayers were answered and many of them exceeded the vision of your expected outcome. The review of your blessings should build your faith and knowing that you are heard and loved by an unseen force that is walking with you on this life journey.

 The power of prayer is unstoppable and gains strength when prayers are in made with loving intentions for the well-being of another person and combined with other people. If we all pray for each other we all are being prayed for and our connection to one another creates an invisible chain of love that answers the prayer and wishes of divine.

~ WOW ~

Window 62 ~ Truth of Self ~







The process of finding one’s self starts with losing the self that was created unconsciously to avoid having to face the truth and uneasiness of the self that was wounded.

Any source of pain that is not acknowledged or healed creates a shield around your heart and blocks your inner spirit from shining outwardly; which causes a change to your personality and reality of self. If you represent yourself as someone else to avoid facing your pain, the false self you created will create a path that was not paved for the walk of your life journey.

You must face your broken pieces in order to see how each piece has weakened your connection to your inner spirit and blocked you from knowing the real you.  Once you begin to heal is when you’re” true” self becomes bright and your path and purpose comes to light.

~ WOW~

Window 61 ~Shifts of energy~

You have total control over your energy, but if you do not acknowledge the shifts, the energy is in control of you.

Energy travels like smoke and is like an unseen life that flows through us and weaves out and into the energy field of others. It is the shift of feeling good to bad or bad to good that we ignore that determines the outcome of the energy we pass onto others and can cause a shift to their energy if they too are unaware.

 We believe our feelings and thoughts are always are own or stem from life situations but if we are conscious and alert to the sudden changes of our feelings we would see  that many times the shift is from the energy of another person. Everyone has experienced feeling either good or bad and then enters a room with others and a shift of energy takes place that changes how you feel, or you talk to someone on the phone and hang up feeling either depressed or uplifted… those are the shifts that leave lasting effects on your energy.

We all are connected and our thoughts and actions have an effect on the energy of others with the power to be either healing or toxic; so each of us must strive to be conscious of what we absorb and infect others with. The power of positive energy can recycle all negativity because it flows from a place of love which is unbreakable; so if you become aware of your own shifts, you can break the stream of anything negative from multiplying and become a light for everyone you connect with.

~ WOW ~









~Death is not the end of life; death is just a change of where we live our life. ~

This week was a major awakening for me as to how blessed I am to have this ability to see and communicate with the spirit world; It was the anniversary of my mother’s passing and the same day our family dog who is like our child and sibling was sent to the spirit world to live.

As our family has mourned his loss I found a deep gratitude for being allowed to see and know that the spirit world truly exists and that our loved ones are OK and still around us. For me communicating with spirit has become more normal and real than speaking with people in the physical world, and it got me thinking about everyone I have sat with over the years and for others who are suffering the pain of a loss and do not have the peace of  unequivocally knowing  that heaven is real.

It brings me joy to know that death is not the end of life and my wish is for everyone to know it; because it brings an inner peace that cannot be found by anything in the physical world. I could share profound signs and messages of what I have experienced but if you have not gotten your own validation you will always question if it is real.

I can honestly tell you that I am actually closer to my mother now then when she was alive ; because she is magically present and in the “know” of things and has a higher level of insight and guidance that can only be obtained from the realm that she is in, and through her connection and power of our creator.

 I would say that the spirit world is kind of similar in ways to the old TV show Bewitched… because spirit can see, hear and pop in at any time and have the ability to hear our thoughts and  move things and do things that are humanly impossible.  It is like they have super magical powers… they can  turn things on and off, they can send you things such as pennies, dimes, quarters, Nichols and animals to cross your path along with  birds, butterflies, dragonflies, flowers or anything else under the sun that has some meaning for you or them when they were here.

 They can call your name and they can come to you in a dream which is a way that is easiest for them to communicate because we are spirit and when we  sleep we enter the spirit realm through dreaming… so know that if a loved one appears in a dream  they are really showing up to visit you, they may have a message or just show their presence  silently as a way to show you they are with you, it is not your imagination it is a very real visit.

Spirit can overlap a person in the physical world so you can see them; so when you think you see your loved one physically don’t think you are losing your mind because  you are really see them. When you think about them and get goose bumps it is an actual spiritual hug from them, when they pop in your thoughts they are really standing next to you whispering in your ear telling you they are with you and the more you talk to them and include them in your daily life the more they will give you signs that they are around.

 They will never scare you and they know when you are ready and open to receive their signs and messages, which can only be seen when you are truly in the present moment.  Waiting and searching for signs will never be seen but will always come when you need them and when you least expect them to appear.

  I always tell people to pick some sort of private sign to send for  your loved ones and friends while each of  you are both alive so that when one of you passes you can send that sign as a validation that is unquestionable  to show that the spirit world is very real. Even if you did not make an arrangement for a specific sign to be sent you can still ask them now and it will be sent.

Everyone can connect with their loved ones and the more you keep their memory alive the more they come around but the same goes in the spirit world as the physical world…if you are sad, depressed and constantly whining about their loss they don’t really want to come around because it is depressing and any of the signs they try to send cannot be seen because you are spinning in the past or future.

Death is hard; it leaves an emptiness that is like no other and creates drastic changes for those of us left behind but… it is through death that we learn what true love is and that it is a bond of love that is never broken.  The spirit world is not far away it is just a veil between two worlds that is becoming thinner and thinner as people are awakening to the voice of their inner spirit. Create your own connection and relationship with your creator and experience a glimpse of the love and magic that awaits us all.