The process of finding one’s self starts with losing the self that was created unconsciously to avoid having to face the truth and uneasiness of the self that was wounded.
Any source of pain that is not acknowledged or healed creates a shield around your heart and blocks your inner spirit from shining outwardly; which causes a change to your personality and reality of self. If you represent yourself as someone else to avoid facing your pain, the false self you created will create a path that was not paved for the walk of your life journey.
You must face your broken pieces in order to see how each piece has weakened your connection to your inner spirit and blocked you from knowing the real you. Once you begin to heal is when you’re” true” self becomes bright and your path and purpose comes to light.