It takes more strength NOT to respond in the same manner of that which attacks us, than it does to lower ones self to the level of anger and hate… But walking in grace is a silent win, that leaves great effects on our heart and crushes our ego.
~ Children will take ownership of their parents disconnection from love.~
Every breakup that involves a child being shared between to parents, is an opportunity for the parents to either be a teacher of what true love is, (by putting the child above their emotions and remaining communicative friends)… or they can teach a child what hate is, (by only seeing the faults in someone who was once love.)
Our actions are absorbed by our children and will either boost their internal love, or create wounds within them… so parents must put aside their own issues and keep the hearts of their children full of love, to help their future relationships.
When the universe pulls us out of our comfort zone, it is not to break us, it is to build us up into that which we can not yet see in our self… and if we look back or return to our comfort, we are only delaying our greatness.